Im a good guy with a good job. My kids dont live with me, my ex is not psycho. I have my own ride and my own money. I'm quiet and enjoy getting out. Out of the house, out of town, and occasionall y out of the country. I wont be hung up if you have kids, or if youre just looking for a friend to go out and have a few drinks or dinner with. I am still into writing poetry, not always to a girl, but often about a girl. I am former military, but have forgotten what it was like. In other words, I'm not bossy, controlling. I dont hate the world, or anyone in it. My one flaw is I become absorbed in what I'm doing. Sometimes its a very good thing.