well i guess you could say im not like the majority of guys. im not here looking for random sexual encounters. i prefer to actually get to know a girl before i jump right to sex. ive had my share of one night stands and i can say that the sex isnt near as good as it is when i actually get to know someone . i guess you could say im a romantic, i love sex , but i really enjoy sex with passion and attraction.. if im not attracted mentally physically or cosmically i dont usually try to force things.