I have been in acouple long term relationships. Basically, each relationship lacked passion or adventure in the "bedroom". I ask myself this all the time. How can you not be interested in trying different things or different ways to something so wonderful? Ok, so maybe this wasn't as good as you thought. Lets try something else! Wow, that was fun! The sky is the limit. My pleasure is your pleasure. But I also want to know that you're enjoying to pleasure me.