First of all; I am married. Second of all: I really need more intimate touching. Leg and back touching really feel great but I can't get it from her. I am a 49 year old black belt martial artist with a very nice, tone body. I love tennis, basketball, backgammon and chess; Things I can't do with her either. Third of all: I am not looking for a divorce. I am very happy with my wife, just looking for more than she can give me physically.