64 year old decent looking, (some have said handsome), widowed man. I'm a little bit too heavy which I'm working on. My wife died 3 1/2 years ago and it's been longer than that since I had sex except for a couple of bj's. I'd love to find a lover, companion or friend to watch tv with; have dinner out with; converse with and after with to snuugle and have some good sex with. I'm not pushy!