That covers the two most frequently asked questions. I am very laid back and love to laugh. I am sick of going out to the usual bars and seeing the same people look each other over and never interact (although they see each other each week). I am at a stage where most of my friends are married and am constantly being invited to dine and drink with them either solo or with a date, however I tend to show up most often solo. For the first few years it did not seem that big of deal but now I am beginning to feel like a third wheel. I am at the point where I am ready to share my life with someone. I am interested in finding someone to share dinners, travel and fun.